Growing up in the Church of Christ I have often heard people use a phrase like, “better safe than sorry” when defending certain doctrines or beliefs. For instance, when asked about worshipping without the accompaniment of musical instruments, many people would respond by saying that “obviously” singing without instruments is okay because we see instances of acapella worship in the New Testament. And if it is in the New Testament it can’t be wrong.
Or when addressing particular divorce and remarriage issues a struggling brother or sister may be told that the most prudent course of action is to remain unmarried if they aren’t sure their divorce is scriptural. Otherwise they run the risk of entering into an “adulterous marriage.” Better safe than sorry.
Weekly observance of the Lord’s supper is another example where the “safe” argument is sometimes used. In Acts 20:7 we read, “On the first day of the week we came together to break bread. Paul spoke to the people and, because he intended to leave the next day, kept on talking until midnight.” Since they came together on the first day to break bread we can assume that our coming together for the same reason and on the same day is a “safe” position.
I am aware that all three of the above positions may be defended in more ways than just the “better safe than sorry” argument. But the “safe” argument has held a lot of sway on many, including me, for many years so I want to focus on it in this article. In fact, this kind of thinking has become so ingrained in our mindset that it has infiltrated other areas of our decision making.
It isn’t uncommon for Church leadership, after being approached about a new ministry or novel programming idea, to hear vigorous complaints from a vocal minority if and when the new idea becomes common knowledge. In an effort to play it safe and not risk offending anyone, the new gets swept under the rug in deference to the traditional. Better safe than sorry.
While it may seem the wise and prudent course of action to not do something that will ruffle feathers, this kind of thinking comes with a high price. Once it becomes evident that leadership will tend to shy away from anything new in the face of opposition, even if the opposition is a decided minority, it will inevitably foster an environment where change of any kind becomes nearly impossible.
People don’t like change because it is uncomfortable. If we can, without much consequence, we will always gravitate toward the known, the traditional. But Christianity isn’t about avoiding change. It is all about change. And I am afraid that our “prudent” decisions can so infect our thinking as to ultimately inhibit not just our ability to make programming changes at Church but also risks inhibiting our ability to affect change within ourselves.
But what about the scriptural disposition that playing it safe is, well, safe? Are the scriptures trying to tell us that the wisest course of action is to limit ourselves to only the things we see written in the New Testament? Why? What if God was attempting to show us only what was the best course of action for 1st century Corinth, Rome, or Antioch. Maybe the message we are supposed to be getting is that it is imperative we use Godly principles in order to implement the best course of action for 21st century Christians. What worked best for 1st century Jews may not be what works best for 21st century southerners... or yankees.
I suspect that I will be inundated with verses that are used to support the idea that anything we do in worship has been laid down in a clear manner for all time. But all such attempts must start from the assumption that our “worship service” (a concept itself that is difficult to support biblically) IS laid out for us in an unbendable fashion. Is it? I am not so sure.
Is it possible that playing it “safe” is the riskiest thing a Church can do? Is it possible that by playing it safe we have inadvertently buried our talents in the ground out of fear of the master? If so, he may not be as pleased with our prudence as we have supposed.
What say ye?

When I read my Bible, from beginning to end, I see a God that enjoys interacting with men and women who DON'T play it safe. Every prominent person in the Bible, from Abraham, Moses and David, Rahab through the Prophets to Paul...None of them played it safe. I've always quoted somebody by saying that God loves it out on the thin end of the limb...He does..Faith, Trust, the unknown...One could hardly read about God and walk away thinking He was a God of the Safe People...The guy with one talent..he was safe. Why take the risk when all could be lost was his reasoning..Ended up with less than what he started out with...Playing it safe? It's just Fear in sheep's clothing.
ReplyDeleteThe more I read your posts and blog, the more I wonder if it all is worth the struggle. I think I have something figured out and then read what you write and I'm all mixed up again. I don't want to be the reed blowing every which way in the wind. If I'm going to be lost anyway, why try?
ReplyDeleteBy the way, you say as people search they draw closer to God. Not always. I, for many years, have searched diligently to find the truth and serve God as best I could. Was it all for nought? Reading what you write, I think maybe it is.
ReplyDeleteBy the way, you said that people draw closer to God when they communicate in their search. Not always. Since I found Christ, for many years, I have search and tried to find and follow the truth. Was it all for nought? Maybe it was.
ReplyDeleteDear Anonymous,
ReplyDeleteNot all journeys are linear. Not all searching will quickly arrive at answers. The Israelites had to wander around in the desert for forty years (in a physical space that really shouldn't have taken more than a few months to cross) before they arrived at their promised land.
I also feel like I am wandering in a spiritual desert since shifting from traditional church to more of an emerging church paradigm. My husband and I don't attend traditional church anymore. Some of my family think I'm sliding down the slippery slope and I often wonder that myself. Now everything I do in faith is a conscious effort. I can't just listen to someone or get caught up in other people's worship (though this is not always bad). I have to make the effort to source my own sermons, to study the Bible, to learn. I have to be careful that I don't throw out 'safe' but holy practices, nor reject new, unsafe ones. And it's exhausting. I've come to realise that I can't do it all myself.
Which is maybe the point. Now I have to listen to God more! Yes many people can do this within the context of tradition and safety. I know some of them and I love them dearly. That place is right for them, but not for everyone. Where I am now, I feel like barriers have been broken down. I see God working in other people, in people who don't believe in him. My eyes are more open to the Kingdom of Heaven here on earth, though don't think I don't yearn as much for the eternal.
This change has been slow. It has taken over five years so far, and I still have a very long way to go. I still haven't reached my promised land, haven't come close. But I'm still a lot closer than when I started the journey!
I think faith is less about the belief than the effort, the direction and the relationship. We can't avoid being wrong sometimes because we are human, but we can keep on searching and changing and being faithful because we desire God. I'd prefer to be wrong and teachable than wrong and inflexible!
I humbly pray that you find clarity, that you draw closer to God and that you find peace in this unknown. And could you please pray this for me as well.
I for one believe we have great freedoms in Christ that extend far beyond the safe stuff. Having said that: "Be careful, however, that the exercise of your freedom does not become a stumbling block to the weak" from 1 Corinthians 8 dictates how I'm able to express those freedoms around those whose "conscience is weak" verse 7. For the gospels sake, however, we have to find balance between the safe and the effective, between those strong in the faith, and the weak, between change and unchanging.
ReplyDeleteAfter reading the epistles, each as a whole, I begin to see a bigger context that most church of Christ Christians have missed. We get out our magnifying glasses and pick out all the rules we should obey, but miss the big picture altogether. I think Jesus would say of us... "You diligently study the Scriptures because you think that by them you possess eternal life. These are the Scriptures that testify about me, yet you refuse to come to me to have life."
ReplyDeleteWe've tended to write a new pharisaical lawbook, instead of trusting in the Salvation of Christ. And yet, we make big deals out of little things and completely miss the bigger points. "I desire mercy, not sacrifice!" We are to be Christ's body to the world, and most of the time we sit in our little buildings content with status quo and starving our spiritual needs.
Anyone who comes to me, telling me what I can and can't do... I just reply, "Have you read ROMANS?!?!" There is freedom! Seek first His Kingdom, avoid evil and do good deeds, love one another sincerely, bare with one another's differences, have faith, ask God for good things like the Spirit which he so richly gives! If this sounds like some 'change agent's' message, then clearly you are not familiar enough with God's word to know what it says truly! Read it with fresh eyes. Ask God to reveal His truth to you, open your heart, your eyes, and your ears to hear his message proclaimed.
I fear what Jesus would have to say to us all who have heavily relied on a tradition without truly seeking after God. We've denied the weightier things and fallen for small trivial matters. “Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You give a tenth of your spices — mint, dill and cummin. But you have neglected the more important matters of the law — justice, mercy and faithfulness. You should have practiced the latter, without neglecting the former. You blind guides! You strain out a gnat but swallow a camel."
By all means, seek out God and run to him.
Eph. 2:10- "For we are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do."
When a person decides I am going to be RELIGIOUS on the Sabbath or on Sundays each week, then that becomes their motive.
ReplyDeleteBefore they can get out of the starting blocks they have been consumed by full blown LEGALISM.
A search begins to find a direct command from an INSPIRED writer to assemble upon that particular day in order for God not to condemn them.
Soon they discover there is no such command in all of the New Testament.
They ponder, why is everyone that is religious THEN assembling on one of those two days?
What many refuse to accept is because they love to be together and they were free to, and they wanted to, so that they could be with those of like minds.
What they reject is, that it is a tradition and has always been for 2000 years.
So those that decided they preferred to be driven by and limited by Law instead of driven by Love and the liberty that comes from Love God, Love neighbor ignored this fact and could not find any examples where this was not the case.
So they did a 180 degree turn away from God's plan and they decided, No they did not assemble freely they assembled STILL under a Law that condemned.
Even though to this day they have not found that command, that thus saith the Lord under the New and better covenant, they ingeniously created Law by simply requiring what the early church freely did out of tradition (born into) be done under the Law of condemnation.
Low and behold meet the "Church of Christ" denomination.
The church of Christ is no longer under the Law of condemnation. They do what they do when ever they do it out of Liberty and Freedom and not from the created Law, the Law that still condemns.
It can be very confusing as to who is what and what is who? Are you "Church of Christ" or do you simply assemble with other followers of the Christ as part of the church of Christ?
Scott,
ReplyDeleteBeing an active C of C member I find your posts challenging (in a good way). I am not ready to abandon hte principles to which I am deeply rooted, but I firmly believe it is good to challenge ourselves and be competent to deal with challenging questions.
You refer to "playing it safe," in relationship to an ideology that is closed to growth and development. Taking a Biblical approach to this, isn't this exactly what the one talent man did, "buried his talent" (Matt 25). We know what is outcome was.
Two quick and contradictory thoughts:
1. We can point the finger at the playing it safe crowd when their sincere desire is to do things according to God's will. Whether we agree or not, much of what is practiced is based on their biblical hermenutic and respect for authority.
2. There are also those who would hinder any good work with a "slippery slope theology." How many times Have I seen good works shot down because someone says, "we don't know where that will lead."
I am reminded of an organization I worked for once. A well-known country musician was considered for a board position (also a leader in his local church). One opponent said, "well, he is in the industry and we don't know how he lives.). I was so thankful for the brother who said, "we don't know how you live either.
Same problem you are addressing - we are often driven by FEAR. FEAR of doing the wrong thing! FEAR of what others may think! FEAR of having our traditions challenged.
Trent,
ReplyDeleteI take it as a great compliment when someone who may not agree with me still finds something I write challenging. In fact, that may be the highest kind of compliment I could ever be paid.
Thanks,
Scott
PS... I agree with both of your "contradictory thoughts."
We do need to be careful about adding 'new' and 'manmade' ideas. Take a look at the gradual changes in the Roman church because of this philosophy and approach. A division between 'layity' and 'priesthood' because that was an OT model. 'Sacrifice' of the mass . Vestments. Statues because it is an 'aid to worship.' Priest hierarchy. Infallible pope. Only certain ones can administer 'eucharist.' And on and on and on. And what you describe as 'new' versus 'traditional' might better be described as 'gee this seems like a good idea' versus scriptural. Or are you one who believes that Truth changes over time?
ReplyDeleteI am glad that I had parents and teachers who admonished me to be careful when I drove or dated. I think it has saved me from some heart ache and pain.
ReplyDeleteBut I think the "Being careful" idea you are writing about is a result of the belief that at any moment if an individual does something wrong or violate some arbitrary law- even in ignorance- they will burn eternally in Hell.
One be careful, my parents', is based on love the other be careful is based on the belief that God is sadistic and a meglomaniac wanting us to do Nothing versus something which might violates his will which is not very clearly written in the bible.
I would prefer to follow the God who warns when things might harm me but encourages me to go ahead and drive or date because he wants to see the good that I migh accomplish.
Scott,
ReplyDeleteI appreciate your words here. I too try to deal publicly with some of the issues you bring up in this post.
Keep searching guys! God is real.
Here's a couple of posts I made a while back that your readers might find interesting (you'll have to copy and paste):
http://leelangdon.com/?p=499
http://leelangdon.com/?p=553
Peace in Christ my friends.
Lee
www.leelangdon.com
Hey Rebecca...I think people need more friends like you...that was a kind and transparent post.
ReplyDeleteHello Scott,
ReplyDeleteAn interesting topic as always. I hope you don't mind my 2 cents. I appreciated the fellow that mentioned 1 Cor 8. To me this is the big issue: “I do not pray for these alone, but also for those who will believe in Me through their word; that they all may be one, as You, Father, are in Me, and I in You; that they also may be one in Us, that the world may believe that You sent Me" John 17:21.
This is how Christians are supposed to be, united. You go into any town, big or small, and there is a church on every corner. Yes, I know, I'm not naive. There are doctrinal issues as well. But we have seen churches split, for no better reason than, brethren wanted to do something, and others did not.
How can those two brothers worship together? That is laid out in 1 Cor 8 and Romans 14. "(1)Receive one who is weak in the faith, but not to disputes over doubtful things. For one believes he may eat all things, but he who is weak eats only vegetables." Here you have two brethren. One believes he has freedom to do something. One who does not. Paul says it does not matter. Eat or not eat. That is not important to God. So how can they worship together, given their conflicting views?
"(15)Yet if your brother is grieved because of your food, you are no longer walking in love. Do not destroy with your food the one for whom Christ died." The only way they can worship together, to be united together and not divide and go their separate ways, is for the doer (freedom) to not do, so as not to offend the brother.
Does that mean we just put our heads in the sand and don't try to teach each other? No. (17) "For the kingdom of God is not eating and drinking, but righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit. For he who serves Christ in these things is acceptable to God and approved by men. Therefore let us pursue the things which make for peace and the things by which one may edify another."
I hope that's not as clear as mud :)
One of the wonderful things about the church of christ is that pretty much any body can come and worship with us, without it violating their conscience.
We will: Pray (no one has a problem with that), sing (no one has a problem with that), take the Lord's supper (No problem), the offering (No problem), Study (no problem). No one wants to take away any of those.
So, how does our verse in Rom and 1 Cor apply. I don't believe in instrumental music in worship. I will not go into it. If you oppose that view, consider me the "weak in the faith." If you believe in the instrument, you probably don't believe you "have" to have it. You believe you have the freedom to have it. How can we remain united together? The doer (freedom) has to refrain so as not "grieve" the brother who does not think he can.
I apologize for the length. I guess in a nutshell, I fall on the safe side.
Thank you,
John Hines
(conservative church of christ) Stop calling me names, I can't hear them:)
John,
ReplyDeleteI believe your view is one born out of utmost compassion for the sensitivities of the people around you. And for that you should be applauded. However, I respectfully disagree with your conclusion... sort of.
If we take this thinking to it's logical conclusion we end up forcing ourselves to adopt a minimalist condition about every aspect of our corporate church. You mentioned praying, singing, communion, offering, and studying... our five acts. If I understand the thrust of your comment, you are suggesting these five things can all be agreed upon with unity... nobody has a problem with them. However, I have seen major disagreements break out over all of these issues. As a minister, I bet you have too.
When these disagreements break out to whom do we defer. A usual course of action is to stick with whatever we have been doing and saddle the new ideas. After all, we don't want to offend the weaker brother. However, we are usually dealing with lifelong Christians on both sides, many of which are just reluctant to change. I am not sure the "weaker brother" is exactly relevant in these situations.
I Corinthians 8 is a great principle... don't offend a weaker brother. However, I don't find that this verse means that if a person has a continual lifelong problem with an aspect of our corporate worship then we are obligated to never change it. We actually have an obligation to teach that weaker brethren that it is okay to eat the meat sacrificed to idols. If they will not learn then at some point we have to move on. If we always react to each and every complaint we will never move forward. We will strangle ourselves with our own sensitivities.
And you are correct about my instrument viewpoint. I don't feel compelled to use them (in fact I prefer acapella) but I don't feel they are sinful.
Thank you for your thoughtful comments,
Scott
Hey Scott,
ReplyDeleteGood to talk to you. Brethren have arguments? Never!:) I was just asked my a woman wednesday night after class if I would like one of her nervepills. If I understand the teaching in Romans, and I agree with you we have to teach (Hence the edify in 14:9). Yeah, if they won't be peaceably edified, then move on, sadly. Not the goal, but it happens. Jesus weeping over Jerusalem is a good example.
The part that most have a problem with, (not in the reading but the application) is verse 22. "Have you faith, have it to yourself." If you believe you have freedom, as you do with the instrument (I hope you don't mind me using you as an example, sorry if you do, all apologies), perhaps I don't see it as sinful either. But some brethren do. How can we worship together like we should. Don't have it. Keep your faith to yourself. For me it's not necessary. For others it violates their conscience.
I know brethren like to fuss even about the 5 acts. All I can say is if their reason is based on scripture, you have to be real careful. Also, thank goodness for how the church is designed. I don't know which way you have gone, but because of your background you know where I am coming from. I don't have to worry about corruption up the religious corporate ladder (Autonomy), and thank goodness for good Elders that serve well. I'm just a young fellow (33) and I surely have enough to handle :) Just don't call me shirley.
Thanks,
John
John,
ReplyDeleteI think we probably on solid common ground here. For instance, I would never think of trying to push instrumental worship into a congregation composed of members who don't approve. It would be wrong to try and it would never work. However, I do not feel I have a Biblical imperative to judge a congregation negatively whose members do approve and participate in instrumental worship. As you suggest, thank goodness for autonomy.
I really appreciate the tone of our conversation. My guess is that you and I may have some differences of opinion about some things but nevertheless are capable of a civil conversation. Sincere conversation without mean-spiritedness is sometimes difficult to find. So thank you.
Scott
Scott,
ReplyDeleteThanks for the reply and kind words. I have sort of a technical question, that's really a tangent. I am in the process of building a web-site and perhaps blog for the church and community and what not. I am not an avid blogger, but am pushing into it. I have noticed something about many blogs, and just want to know if you have to combat it, or if it really isn't a problem. In the forums on some web-sites (Amazon is where I've noticed it, as said this is kind of new to me) there are endless tirades going on. I made the mistake perhaps of interjecting my thoughts, (before I realized what was going on) into a conversation about the Lord's supper/Eucharist. There were 6000 posts about this in the last 30 days. All from the same few people. Do you have to deal with this? And if so, how?
Just curious and I'll understand if you only want to discuss the topics at hand.
Thanks again. I still can't get over the "brain washed" camp.
John
John,
ReplyDeleteThat hasn't been an issue on this blog. Hopefully it never becomes an issue. Sorry I ain't much help.